lose control out of control的意思|示意

In general, getting angry with a toddler who is out of control isn't unhealthy, it's pretty normal, but when you lose control too, that's when your anger becomes a problem.

总的来说，与一个失控的小孩子生气是不健康的，这很正常，但当你也失控的时候，你的愤怒就成了个问题。

But because of the way Daddy behaved when he was angry and drunk, I associated anger with being out of control and I was determined not to lose control.

由于老爸发怒和醉酒时的表现，我总是把愤怒与失控联系在一起，因此决心绝不能让自己失控。