Not A Doormat的意思|示意

You are a friend, not a doormat .

你是一位朋友，而不是一个受气包。

It feels good to be a parent, not a doormat or an ATM machine.

你要感觉成为父母棒极了，而不是受气包或自动提款机。

Being a good friend does not mean being a doormat.

成为别人的好朋友并不等于可以任人践踏。

It's good to have a doormat in the home, but not if it's your husband.

在家有一个门垫还不错，只要它不是你的丈夫。

"You always look down and mumble when I talk to you, " they might say. "I feel like you're not interested. " Or: "You're so helpful and polite, even to awful people. Frankly, you're kind of a doormat.

他们可能说：“当我和你说话的时候你总是头朝下嘟哝“，”我感到你不感兴趣’或：”你太有帮助、太礼貌了，对可恶的人们都如此。

There are, of course, limits to humility and being a doormat is certainly not going to enhance your career.

我最初是在投资银行业学到这个教训。 这是一个令人兴奋的职业，从业者都极其自负和独断，谦逊被视为软弱的表现。